Giveaway: LuckyBloke Bottle of Encounter Lube and Condom Sampler Pack
Review: Encounter Ultimate Anal lube
Today our review is brought to us by the amazing people at Lucky Bloke. Sorry guys this review is late, but here it is anyways!
This is some AMAZING lube. I didn’t really have high hopes for it, as many lubes claim so much, but I was willing to give another lube a try. Boy, was a shocked when this lube did more than just lubricate!
The Encounter: Ultimate Anal Lube was something I had not had high hopes for because it claimed to help relax the muscles with mint extract. I’ve read way too much claims for such things as relaxing the muscles and the lube FAILING majorly. This lube DIDN’T fail. It made GREAT strides in an anal lube that does help make anal SO much better.
This lube claims to be thick, and my dear it’s thick but not to the point of not being able to use it. This is thick but silky. Doesn’t make you feel like you’re using a water based 
lube at all. This has the consistency of a silicone lube but is a water based lube. So yes, this lube is silicone toy safe! This lube is also considered latex safe as well!
The ingredients are listed as (paraben free! glycerin free! and vegan friendly): Water, Propylene, Glycol, Hydroxyethylicellulose, Butylene glycol, Carbomer, Cymbopogon Schoenanthus Extract, Eugenia, Caryophyllus Flower Extract, Lycium Barbarum Fruit Extract, Melissa Officinalis Extract, Panax Ginseng Root Extract, PEG-45M, Tetrasodium EDTA, Tocopheryl Acetate, Triethanolamine, DMDM Hydantoin, Sodium benzoate.
This bottle is great too! It is a pump not a squeeze bottle. I have found this is so much easier when dealing with lube because you don’t have to hold the bottle to get the lube out. Has a great hard clear cap over it too, so it doesn’t leak anywhere. The bottle is 2oz and it goes REALLY far. We have used it quite a few times and have barely made a dent into the bottle. This on their website only goes for 6.99! This is an amazing deal! They offer condoms to be bought with all your orders too!
Now, I bet you’re all still wondering about this mint extract right? Never thought something as simple as mint could help relax the muscles for anal at all. BUT my partner and I decided to use this, and she didn’t even realize I had entered her. She was so shocked and loved the feeling it gave her. No tingling or anything odd feeling. She just relaxed very quickly. I would suggest this for anyone who needs something to help them get over the pain from anal.
Lucky Bloke was awesome in sending me this lube and I am going to be getting more from them soon! I can’t wait to try more of their products. Check out their website and make sure you order yours now!
Obama making life better for LBGT Inmates
I know, I know. Inmates are inmates, but what if you or one of your loved ones found themselves as an inmate? Would you want the harassment and problems that face most LBGT inmates? I don’t think you would. LBGT inmates face a life of hell. Not only are they beaten up, verbally abused, mentally abuse, humiliated and so much more, they are also sexually abused by other inmates.
I have to say I am quite shocked at how much improvement for the LBGT community has come from Obama lately. I still haven’t personally made up my mind about him. I’m not sure if most of this is political things he’s doing to get the vote since it’s so close to vote time, or if he has a sincere desire to improve our lives. I guess only the future will tell us what he has in store. Maybe if we’re lucky we’ll get gay marriage legalized before he leaves (re-enters) office. Not sure what to think, tell me your opinions.
Obama Makes Us Smile
For Once I woke up feeling half dead, and my day didn’t follow in it’s footsteps. I woke to find that Obama has made a definite move forward for all of history. He has agreed that Gay Marriage should be allowed. Does this make a big difference Not really. BUT it makes a difference. It brings us one step closer to allowing gay marriage. This could be just another ploy in his political campaign yes, but it’s possible it might actually make a difference and allow us to finally be able to marry for love not because we have the “RIGHT” partner. We can marry because we want to. No more being told we’re not allowed to because we aren’t heterosexual. ENOUGH! YAY!
http://2012.talkingpointsmemo.com/2012/05/obama-gay-marriage-interview-abc.php
So you could all read for yourself the amazing words that a man that I wasn’t too fond of, spoke for himself. Maybe just maybe I’ll be finally happy to be proven wrong!
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Ever Wonder why you can’t get aroused?
Reading my facebook page today I came across this article I think all women should read:
http://thestir.cafemom.com/love_sex/136649/the_turnoff_thats_keeping_too
OMG I didn’t know that our minds as women can’t be anxious and aroused at the same time! No wonder when you’re stressed out it’s too damn hard for you to orgasm. Your brain is basically telling you that you can’t be at two places at once. Maybe it’s time to go find some things to destress you.
Take a bath
Play with toys
Read a book
Time to find what relaxes you!
Doing the Impossible: Making a dream Come True
Today, I was sitting at my desk, and finally decided today was going to be the day. I was going to start the steps in making my dream a reality. I am submitting my first erotica story to publishers today. I have to do it. I have to finally take the step towards my dream. No matter what kind of writing it is, as long as one day I see my name on a book as the author I will be happy. Sometime in the near future, I plan on making this my reality instead of my dream. I will work my heart out until this is accomplished. I know I’m a great writer, I just have to get my butt in gear to get it published. If anyone knows of any good sites to send it into please feel free to leave me a comment or email me at Diabolicalkitty@awomanandherwand.com
Review: G4 Big Boss Vibe
POW! Definitely the first words that came to mind when I saw this vibe. It’s a nice size and the silicone gives it just enough drag to make you feel wonderful. I’m talking about the G4 Big Boss Vibe that Babeland supplied for this review. I was so excited to get this and when the box came I don’t think I could have torn open the paper and box faster. Sadly, I didn’t read the directions well, and couldn’t figure out how to charge this. This was my first rechargeable vibe, and I definitely was impressed. I didn’t think a toy without batteries or being plugged into the wall was going to be good, but this definitely was. Measuring in at 9 3/4″ long and 1 3/4″ wide, I was definitely ready to try this out. Boy, I was disappointed in the fact I had to wait, it needed charging first.
I couldn’t figure out for the life of me how to charge this. The directions are very tiny, and there wasn’t any clear direct direction on how to plug this in. There was no port to plug anything in, and the charger was just some metal prongs. I tried and tried and tried to figure out how to charge this. After 1/2 hour, and help from another friend. We both felt really stupid
when we realized that the word “FUN” on the front of the toy were metal, not silver color, and that is how you charge this toy. Well, off the toy went to the bedroom for a long charging and my impatience had to sit still for a couple hours.
Finally, it was time to try out one of the toys I had been waiting for for a long time. My partner and I were really surprised at the weight of the toy, but how easy it was to use. You can use lube with this, but only water lube, as silicone lube will break this down, as it’s a 100% silicone toy. Well, they say 100% silicone, but the handle is plastic and metal. I love how the handle is actually a loop handle instead of just something to hold on to. It made thrusting sooooo much easier. I have to say, having the excitement of getting to use this toy, we didn’t need any lube at all.
Very amazing feeling, and helped fill me up greatly. The G4 Big Boss is a great one to be able to work up to fisting too. The length of this was amazing, and the head of this was shaped like an actual penis head. The silicone was amazingly firm yet pliable, so that it didn’t hurt when thrusting. This is though, one of those toys that you would definitely want to work up to using if you aren’t used to larger toys. With the girth being 1 3/4″, it’s not the size of your normal toy. You want to be careful with thrusting, as with any toy, about hitting the cervix, you can cause damage, or permanent harm to the body. This toy can be used anally, but I would 
suggest using a condom unless that is the only way and only person this toy is going to be use for. This toy cannot be worn as a plug, but it really doesn’t have the possibility of getting lost inside the rectum. This toy is a tad bit too big for that possibility.
The controls were pretty easy to use. The buttons are on the handle and are touch activated. You really don’t have to push hard to get them to respond. They do light up so that it is possible to use this in the dark. You have a + sign, a – sign and a * sign on the handle for buttons. The star sign and the plus sign both can turn on the toy. The minus sign turns off the toy when held down and brought down to the lowest setting and then off. The plus sign increases the intensity of the toy. The star sign changes the patterns of the toy. Yes, this toy even 
has patterns. Honestly, they are patterns I’ve not seen in another toy. They aren’t your normal ones either. The patterns are as follows: bzzzzzz, stronger bzzzzzz, bzz bzzz bzz bzz bzzz, 3 quick bzz repeating, and low bzz getting higher then starting over.
The G4 Big Boss is not loud. It could be heard through a blanket but not through a door. Sadly, the highest setting can begin to numb your hand after a little bit. We decided to use this toy without the vibrations because the toy itself had more than enough sensation with the ridges along the length of the toy. The penis head also strokes the G spot just right, and if used well could cause squirting with the right person.
The funnest part of this toy, was when my partner decided she just couldn’t to see what the toy felt like herself. She thrust the toy inside me then herself. OMG the feeling was amazing and didn’t hurt at all. This toy was firm but pliable enough to do double vaginal penetration 
with. She said that the feeling was wonderful for her too. The toy didn’t hurt against her skin and didn’t hurt when thrusting either.
Overall I’d give this toy a 4 out of 5 stars. Only because the directions were not clear on how to charge this, which had little effect on the stars. The main reason this went down in stars is the fact this toy causes the hand numbing sensations. I hate that in a toy, and it causes me
to want to use the vibrations less. I love toys that the vibration is in the head or body of the toy and less in the handle of the toy.
This toy I would recommend and have recommended to friends. Babeland right now even has the G4 Big Boss Vibe on sale (3/28/12) and at a great price.
Theme: Thoughtful Thursdays
So close to spring being here full time gives me chills that this stupid winter depression is almost over. Sadly, i’m fighting within myself over my feelings for my children. i love my children to death, don’t get me wrong, but i’m feeling guilt, regret, and anger over the fact i became a mom so young. Yes, it was my choice, and no i wouldn’t change a thing. These are my kids and i love them. i just wish sometimes i had the chance to do whatever the hell i wanted. To be busy, or lazy, or just productive more than i feel like i can be some days. Some days i just wish to do whatever the hell i want and not worry about kids. Not to wake up at 7am every day thinking about kids, school, homework, dinner, kids clothes, when’s friday so they go to their dads, etc. Not to have to go to bed at night at 11pm thinking about kids and school and all the other stuff again. Just to be able to do whatever i want and not be held down by kids. Lita came to me for a hug this morning and i pulled her close and hugged her hard. i love them so much, and it’s my own selfishness that wants those things, not because i don’t love my kids. At least i’m not the only one feeling this way. It must be something everyone is feeling. i’ve talked to more than one person, Gerilynn included, that feel that way over their kids right now. Maybe it’s in the water.
Woke up with my face, head, and back all hurting today. Not a great day. Lucky enough, my therapist called me this morning, and i had my appointment over the phone instead of having to go in. She wanted to have lunch today, which would have been when my appointment was, so we just talked on the phone about yesterday, what’s happening over the weekend, the guy i met yesterday, and just bullshitted basically. Was nice to know when i’m in pain like this i don’t have to go out to the therapist today. So, i didn’t skip therapy, just changed how it happened, and when it happened. So i can get more things done today.
Ended up seeing on youtube this morning a lot of fairy tales are being remade into more adult versions. Not adult as in our kinky fucked up minds, but adult as in not cartoons, the main character kicking ass instead of sitting back waiting on prince charming to do all the work. i think it’s great that people are seeing fairy tales coming back to life and in whole new ways. Sometimes that’s all we need to see that even us, as normal, not fairy tale inclined people, can have dreams too. We can have our own fairy tales to come true for us, if we just work hard enough and be willing to make the changes we need to make in our lives to make the “impossible” more POSSIBLE.
Theme: Thoughtful Thursday
Today is a day about therapy. Do you think you need therapy? Do you think therapy is a good healthy part of life that all people need? As submissive women and men, do you think that therapy is something needed?
Personally, I think therapy is something needed for everyone. Someone that doesn’t pass judgement on you or make you feel bad for the way you are feeling. Someone to help you when you really need it, and someone to vent to when there is no one else left to just let out all that anger and frustration to. I know being a slave myself, that honestly, if I was to say to my Master half the anger and frustrations that I have, I’d be in trouble a lot. That is something I definitely don’t want.
I have found that therapy has become my friend when things have become tough and cannot do them alone anymore. My therapist is great because she is very kink friendly, and what she doesn’t know she is willing to learn. Which having a therapist like this is more than awesome. She has helped me find my way back to the way of the living again and now feel like I am stuck in my head and my home.
Today we talked about new goals and objectives for me. I think this is something that everyone needs to do with their therapist. Keep this up to date as you achieve those goals. Working towards goals with your therapist will help you find out what you need to work on and not play the game of going into his/her office and venting. If you don’t have goals to achieve than that therapy will just turn into a constant bitch and moan session.
My goals as of late are working on my agoraphobia, my depression, my decision making skills, and building healthy relationships. I know I have these problems and recognizing them and acknowledging them is my first step to making them better and not letting them rule my life. Sadly, too many people don’t do this. They don’t want to know what their problems are they just want to ignore them and pretend everything is good with them. I’m realistic. I know I have problems, and I am finding the ways to fix them and fix me so I can become a healthier person.
Finding ways to become a healthier person is the best way for any of us to find healthier places in ourselves and within our relationships. Just remember that and you’ll find yourself down a happier and healthier path for the rest of your life.
