Review: Trojan midnight collection compact 3.3

 

I was so excited to receive the Trojan Midnight Collecti0n Compact vibe 3.3 for review . For starters I love that it is purple, since that is one of my favorite colors. It is small and fits comfortably in my hand. There is only one button on this vibe, so it is definitely easy to use.

The compact 3.3 is one of three toys in the Trojan Midnight Collection. There is also the multi-position vibrator, which I am itching to try and the interchange vibe. They all come with batteries, are made from ABS plastic, medical grade silicone. This means that they a phthalates-free.

The Compact 3.3 is good for beginners as well as advance users. It can be used for solo jaunts or partner play. I did notice a slight smell as I was removing it from it’s pretty purple box.  The Compact 3.3 boasts 6 vibrations modes. Mode 1-3 consists of low, medium and high vibrations. Mode 4 is a constant pulsating low to high pattern. Mode 5 is a medium constant pulsating vibration  in a buzzbuzzbuzz pattern. Mode 6 was the most enjoyable of the pattern modes. It has four quick vibrations  in low power followed by a long high pulsating  vibration.

The Compact 3.3 runs on 1 AA battery that is included in the package. It is water resistant which I must remind you is not the same as waterproof, although it says it can be used in the shower. On it’s lowest setting the Compact 3.3 can’t be heard through a closed door but as you move up in vibration levels it get really buzzy. I don’t think you could hide the noise even behind a closed door if you’re running it on high.

The one button located at the back end of the vibe is used to turn it on, off and to change the vibration. To turn off the vibe either cycle all the way through the vibrations of push and hold the button down until it turns off. The textured tip,which I love, is made of silicone and for this reason you should only use water-based lubricants. Using anything else could cause the silicone covering your toy to degrade.

The only problems that I had with this toy is that it simply did not have enough powerful vibrations for me and the vibrations it did have were buzzy. On a scale of 1-5 I would have to give the Trojan Midnight Collection Compact 3.3 vibe a 3.  This toy would be better if it were waterproof and had more powerful vibrations, or at least a lower price. I could not in good conscience pay $49.00 for a vibe with so little power, and so little insertable length. I suggest spending the extra money and going for the Trojan multi-position 5.3 vibe from this collection. Although I have yet to try this one, I have it on good authority that is has a good bit more kick to it as well as 6 3/4″ of insertable length to it.

All three in this collection can be cleaned with water and a 10% bleach solution, mild soap & water or your favorite toy wipes or spray. Always clean it before and after each usage and store in a safe place, I recommend having them in plastic bags at least to prevent them from interacting with your other toys.

 

Thank You Babeland for supplying the Compact 3.3 for my review.

 

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Theme: Thoughtful Thursdays

 

How do you figure out if your relationship has gone stale? How do you figure out if the person whom you live with and “loves” you doesn’t really love you anymore? Are you living two separate lives? 

Today I realized that with me and my partner Sophie. We live together 24/7 with my 3 children. We have been living this way since September, but have been living together with others since this time last year. We seem to be living our own lives living under the same roof. We only seem to interact when it comes to the children. I honestly, feel like I’m being played a fool. I feel like she stays here because it’s comfortable for her. I worry that with my health problems, that all she can do is watch and wait until I am to a bad point, then leave me. 

Will she leave me? I honestly don’t know. I asked her tonight why do we live differently lives? Why don’t we spend time together anymore? Why do you want to live here? She goes because I love you. Of course, I decided to ask, why do you love me? She gave me the lamest answer I think I’ve heard in a long time. She told me she can’t articulate into words why she loves me. I was flabbergasted at the answer. Seriously? You can’t tell me one reason why you love me?

Am I a fool? Am I just holding onto something that is hopelessly gone to me? Sadly, the voices in my head tell me, see you are worthless. No one wants you. That comes from my years of abuse from my, now dead, step-father. I look at myself, and all I see is fat and ugly. I am so programmed that when I look at photos of myself, I don’t see beauty. I see my fat legs, my fat thighs,  how horrible I look. I don’t see the beauty of me. I want to though. I want to say, look, I don’t care what you think, I’m beautiful.

My Master has given me the assignment of going to Dirty Show this weekend. Funny enough my therapist plans on going too, so she gave me the assignment to get out of the house too, and go have fun. I don’t want to have fun when I’m hurting inside. I want to have a partner who loves me. I know Master loves me, but really, sometimes I wonder why. Again, the tapes in my head telling me how ugly, worthless, and fat I am. 

The other assignment given to me by Master is to do a lingerie/nude photo shoot. Of course, I’m going to do it because He desires it from me, but I still worry about how I will look. I am worried, I won’t look the way He thinks I look. Will I still see myself as fat, ugly, worthless, and ultimately, unlovable? I don’t know. I sure hope I don’t. I hope to find that I’m able to get photos that make me so happy I cry from the pleasure of knowing when Master sees them, He will remember why He loves me every day. 

Maybe, just maybe, one day I’ll learn to love myself, again.

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How was your Valentine’s Day???

Yesterday, as millions of people know, was Valentine’s Day. For those who have a partner, what did you do for them? For those that don’t have a partner, what did you do for you. I have a partner as well as two children. Everyone got something yesterday. I got a Kindle Fire, which I am totally in love with. He got Twisted Metal for the PS3 and the little one got a Pokemon game for her 3DS. Now the grumpy ole teen, didn’t get anything,YET. She has not decided what she wants to buy yet, but we decided to give her a spending limit. Why? We gave her money because it is almost IMPOSSIBLE to make our teen happy when we are picking out something for her, so better safe than sorry. Everyone was happy and I also did something for me.

The ME part of this story is that I have discovered a new line of products on Eden Fantasys. It is the Dona line, an aphrodisiac-infused line of bath and body products, from System JO. So far I have tried the body wash in  Mangosteen and the bath milk in  pomegranate. I have also purchased the body mist lotion, the body polish in mangosteen and pomegranate.

 

DONA is meant to serve not only the basic functions of cleansing, moisturizing, and hydrating – it goes even beyond that by making the experience of taking care of your body a sensual one. Each product in this dynamic line is infused with one of six known aphrodisiacs.

Designed as a series of steps, or a ritual, DONA is intended to help guide you through an indulgent, pampering experience. Taken as a whole, using the products within each step of the ritual will truly nurture your mind, body, and sensuality.

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DONA’s ritual contains five separate steps
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Each product is infused with one of six known aphrodisiacs
-acai
-blue lotus
-camu camu
-goji berry
-mangosteen
-pomegranate

With products that are natural, ecofriendly, paraben-free, and without harsh chemicals, DONA by JO’s priority is to treat your body well and heighten your sensuality.

 

I don’t know about the heightening of your sensuality, but I do know that it was very relaxing for me using the products I have. I will be ordering more and will review them here as well as on Eden Fantasys.

Source: Dona

 

 

 


 




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What are Phthalates and how the fuck do you pronounce it?

Phthalates, first of all is a word that many people struggle to pronounce, so let’s start there. The “Ph” is silent, so you say “thall-eights”. It looks far more difficult than it is, say it is few times and you’ll get the hang of it.

Companies use these in items that they want to make feel softer. They are added to plastics to increase their flexibility, transparency, durability, and longevity.

Sounds good huh? A nice flexible dong that will last forever! Not the case! Phthalates are bad for your body, they can lower sperm count, cause birth defects, endocrine disruption, allergies, asthma, low birth weight, and so much more!

Low Birth weight is  the leading cause of death in children under 5 years of age and increases the risk of cardiovascular and metabolic disease in adulthood, so, if you are trying to get pregnant, or ever want to have biological children, don’t put this crap in your body!

According to studies by Davis et al. (1994) and Lopez-Carillo et al. (2010), there is an association between phthalate exposure and endocrine disruption leading to development of breast cancer, not something to look forward to, just because you can’t afford a better dildo. Save your money for a high quality toy, and save yourself the money you’d pay on doctor’s bills later in life!

Endocrine disruption is also linked to obesity. Ok, well, this one doesn’t concern me as much as the others, everything is linked to obesity lately, so whatever. Still, stay away from phthalates and lower your chances. Put down the greasy burger while you’re at it.

Phthalate molecules are not chemically bound to the plastics they soften, so phthalates can “break free” from the plastic fairly easily, causing rubber and jelly toys to deteriorate over time. Where do those “broken” phthalate go? Well, where did you put that infested toy? They go into your body!

How do you tell if your toy contains these nasty chemicals? Sniff it baby! There is the “plastic shower curtain” test. If you can smell a chemical, it is most likely phthalates. Higher quality toys will have no smell to them, so if your toy smells like a new plastic shower curtain, it is probably loaded with phthalates. If you are in a toy store, sniff the box, you can sometimes smell it right through the box, but if not, ask the clerk if you can open and inspect the toy. Respectable stores will allow this (well, really respectable stores won’t carry garbage, but you know what I mean….) as long as you do that in their presence.

To be sure that your toy does not have this chemical, look for 100% silicone, glass, metal or elastomer toys, since none of those would have phthalates in them.

Thanks Safer Chemicals for the picture

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Theme: Thoughtful Thursdays

Hello all you blog reading fans. Today’s episode of Thoughtful Thursday is more of my journal than anything. I have been still dealing with my rape and the feelings that come along with it. I think some people could benefit from reading this understanding that rape really screws with the head and you don’t feel yourself. It makes you change who you are to compensate for the things your rapist takes away from you. In the light of this, I have been blessed with a new Master. He is my service Master. We aren’t involved in having sex, but sexual things may happen. I am trying my hardest in the light of my rape to help my Master help me. He is an amazing man and this is what I wrote in my journal to Him this morning:

Had one of those nights last night. I fell asleep pretty quickly, day dreaming about CampOut again. *sighs* I know I’m crazy. I just cannot wait to see my friends and be at peace again like I was last year. I know it may be more crazy being an organizer this year but I can’t wait to enjoy what I have in front of me. 

The sleeping itself wasn’t what I should have happily accepted. I slept through the night, the first time in a long time. Sadly, I sweated my ass off, and then I woke up with a massive headache. I hate having these headaches honestly. I helped Sophie get the kids off to school, sat down, and here I am. Working on trying to find something to eat. This eating something every 4 hours is going to be a pain in the ass. I hate the idea of eating every 4 hours. Well, lucky enough it means I’m only eating about 3 times a day. Almost thinking eating every 3 hours would get me to eat more often. I already had my breakfast this morning so Master can’t be mad at me about not eating. I ate something more than I had yesterday.

I don’t do well, and it’s not like I’m doing great as it is. I think I need some purpose to move forward here. I feel like I’m sitting in this limbo of places. I want to please Master, but I don’t know what to expect from Him. I want Him to be able to guide me, love me, and push me to do the things that He desires for me. I want to grow as His, and right now, honestly, ONLY His. That thought scares me, but I desire to be His and work at that the best I can. I want it to be something that I’ve never experience before. I mean it already is different than any other D/s relationship I’ve ever had. I’ve never felt the same need to please, as I do with Him. I know He can’t always be there physically/online with me, but it does help knowing He is always with me in heart. I know that all I do is for Him, and He will know of what I do. I cannot help but tell Him. I know I need to work on telling Him not only the good, but the bad too. I have a bad habit of that lately. *sighs* I hate feeling like I am disappointing Him in some way.

Talking to Magic was great for me. I loved talking with her and getting how she feels about things. I am hoping I made a bond with her that allows her to understand me a little better. I loved explaining things to her, and telling her how I wished things to be with Master. She had made teaching new and exciting to me again. I miss teaching, especially my fire play. I haven’t picked it up since candi left. It leaves me empty and sad when I look at it and know that I have no one to work with anymore on my fire. Fire is one of my passions and I haven’t gotten to touch it in a while. I don’t have a bottom who likes fire anymore. So finding a fire bottom would be nice. Thinking of using CM again. Sadly, I’m not too fond of the site really.

I usually want to tell Master what is going on, or whomever we’re talking to, but it feels like I’m always depressed and I hate being a bother or bringing the shell down with all my negative talk. I want to get better, I do. I’m sick of feeling this way. I want to be strong, happy, and not fear anymore. I want to be the woman I was weeks ago. The one who didn’t care what anyone said. The one who took life by the reigns and loved to live life and do things for other people. I hate feeling like I’m stuck in this rut of being depressed. I want to stand up, grab my life back and move forward. I haven’t felt like that until today. I need the strength and support to do this. I think part of it was standing up to Sophie yesterday and making her listen to me and listen to what I needed and had to say. I hope this is my step forward in life. I am really sick of feeling like this. I never even thought writing this morning would bring this many feelings out of me today. I’m really glad it is though. I needed to get myself back on track honestly. I can’t believe it’s taking me this long to write either. I’ve been here writing for 2 hours. I just had to get all this out.

I know Master needs to make sure I am doing good. I know I need to be more open and talk more. That is why I am writing more today. I am feeling really good about today. Other than the fact the agoraphobia is still making it hard to get out of the house. I really don’t want to leave or deal with the outside world. I’m not sure if I’m ready yet. I couldn’t let my mother touch me yesterday either. Part of me really wants to cut contact with a lot of people. I think too many of them are toxic in my life. I guess it’s hard. BUT I know my brother Ricky can kiss my ass. He told my mother than he doesn’t want my kids around his daughter because he’s afraid they’ll talk about sexual things in front of them. That sexual things shouldn’t be talked about in the family. It should all be kept to one’s self. I don’t believe that. I believe children should be raised in a sex positive life and make sure they understand that sex isn’t bad. Neither is masturbation. Nothing is wrong with either. He also said he doesn’t agree with me raising my children around transgenderism. I can’t believe how closed-minded he is. He was also in the kink scene for a while, that makes me so angry he’s being like that. It’s like he became all high and mighty when he had his daughter. It’s bullshit.

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Review: Spirit by Leaf

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Discreet massager by Leaf
Material: Silicone
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Spirit is the embodiment of nature. With spirit, experience the feeling of pure bliss at the touch of your fingers. With its stylized and highly effective shape, allow spirit to take you on a sensual journey. Covered in the softest silicone available and containing powerful vibrations, spirit is sculpted in a way that is naturally form-fitting. Allow the defined tip of the widely curved base to explore your senses in a way you have never felt before. With its eco-friendly rechargeable battery and natural canvas tote, you can have full confidence that you are helping the environment as much as you are treating yourself.

Spirit by Leaf seems to be the next best thing in pleasure objects. It was very easy to use and feels amazing next to my skin. The only negative I could really find with this product was that when pressure is applied, the power redistributes away from the tip of the toy. It was discreet and very powerful. It is also rechargeable, which gives it a plus in my book considering how much money I spent on batteries in the last month alone. The Leaf line has six vibrators total.  4 vibes are external and 2 can be inserted. They are made to resemble exactly what the line is called, a Leaf. Each vibe comes with a 1 year limited warranty, although if you have a problem, need to send it back shipping and handling will cost you $50. Here’s hoping that I never have a problem with my little Spirit. Check out my entire review here.

To get your very on Leaf Spirit go to Eden Fantasys and use code UD5 to get 15% off your order.

Source: Leaf 

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